Inside Kinky Minds (Blog)

Back to Reality. Goddess's Life As The World Begins to Reopen.
Finally there is progress. The World is slowly starting to reopen. Things are going back to "normal," but I hate the word normal... Let's just say that the World is becoming more familiar again, you know pre-pandemic. Anyways…

How To Obtain Goddess's Attention And Keep It.
Ahhh initial contact, so exciting, so new. It's even more exciting when Goddess actually responds. Congratulations, you've caught Goddess's attention, but can you keep it? Yes, this weighs entirely on you.Goddess has many admirers, and receives many messages daily. your hi's, hello's, and have a great day get old fast when you haven't actually done anything for Goddess.

Getting What I Want Is So Hot. (Basic Blog #17)
The title says it all. Getting what I want is so hot, and Goddess gets what She wants, all day every day. Does this mean I am always turned on?

Being a Queen vs Claiming that you're a queen. (Basic Blog #15)
It's been a while since I wrote a blog that caused "controversy," so why not write one today? The online scene has become diluted, I've said it before, and yes, I'll say it again, so many online that claim that they are Queens, Goddesses or better yet Dommes. True Dommes are STRONG ASS independent Women. They live to be pleased and served. A Domme/Queen/Goddess knows what She wants and how to get it, She doesn't change Her Morales of values to get x amount of whatever from a sub, gross.

Boredom... A Goddess's Musings.
As I am stuck here on lockdown, I often have free time to ponder I many things. My mind often wanders, as it wanders I discover and think about where I am, and where I want to be, about new things that I want to experiment with, and even about past experiences that have brought Me to the place I am today.

D/s Relationships vs. Transactional Relationships (Basic Blog #10)
The title says it all. These are two very different things. This is a basic blog so I will keep it very... Well basic.

Expanding And Growing Goddess's Empire
I'm a Goddess and you're a sub, this part is obvious... Look at Me... Now look at you... Now look at Me again. It's clear who's the Superior one in this situation... Very clear. Goddess has been using men like you for years now, and it has been amazing.

Being The Ultimate Goddess
I know I'm hot. Like really hot. My hotness literally radiates off of Me. It pulses, sending hot, sexy Goddess vibes out into the universe.

Adjusting Expectations For your Domme. (Basic Blog #7)
Having realistic expectations for your Domme. Somehow this has become a blog. This blog isn't meant to be "preachy" but to educate as many subs nowadays seem to be confused what a Domme actually is... A person.

Let's Talk about D/s Relationships. (With No Mention Of Findom.) (Basic Blog #4)
The online World has become saturated with all things Findom. Findom is great and all but it's not everything, Findom doesn't make or break a D/s relationship. Findom is only a branch in the world of BDSM. Findom should not be the foundation of a D/s relationship, if Findom is the main foundation that relationship, it's bound to fail.

I Am A Lifestyle Domme. What Does That Mean? (Basic Blog #3)
Online you've probably seen a lot of Dommes. Pro-Dommes, Lifestyle Dommes, FinDommes, FinDumbs, ect. Okay the last one isn't a real title but they do exist.

subs: Correcting your Actions/Mindset HERE Can Stop Servitude From Going Wrong.
Another day, another blog. How lucky for you to be graced once more with My amazing words and presence online. Today is going to be a pretty straight forward blog. This is going to address when servitude often starts going wrong, the misconceptions and how to correct behavior before it's too late.

Is Being A Good boy (sub) Really That Hard? (Or Are you Just An idiot?)
To start off... If you really have to ask yourself that question then more than likely you are an idiot.
Being a good boy, what exactly does that mean?

I don’t Need your Money. (No, Seriously, I Don’t.)
I don’t know what’s happened the the scene the last few years, but the Findom scene has taken a nose dive. It’s been diluted by those “role playing” and those just “trying” to make a quick buck, and quite frankly it’s gross, and it ruins it for those of us who actually find actual enjoyment and pleasure out of the kink, not to mention it makes "subs" think that their tributes are "needed," even more gross.

The Findom "Law Of Attraction." ("Basic" Blog #1)
(I write a lot of "intense" blog topics this new series of blogs is simpler, fun, and a much lighter read.) I'm sure you've all heard about the "Law of Attraction" by now, if you haven't, where have you been living the past 10 years +?

When subs Fail To Meet Expectations And The Resulting Gradual Domme Withdrawal.
A Goddess/Domme will seek good subs to serve, and a sub will seek to serve a Goddess. A sub and Domme need each other to fulfill a void in their lives.

Initiating Contact.
This is something that SHOULDN'T have to be said, but since many of you seem to be confused I figured I would lay out the basics and ground rules of initiating contact with a Domme.

Manipulation From the other Side.
There are always two sides to every story, and two sides to every relationship.
The key to a successful relationship is developing the right dynamic.

Yes, I enjoy Findom... But it does NOT define Me
I enjoy Findom, but it does not define Me. I am so much more than just a "Financial Dominatrix." I enjoy Findom a lot... Don't get Me wrong here, but I also enjoy a variety of other things, kink and vanilla.

The True Meaning of Tribute and Servitude. Clearing Up The Confusion.
I have found that many are confused about the true meaning of servitude and what a tribute actually is... To put it simply... A tribute doesn't get you ANYTHING in return. A tribute is a gift. A tribute is simply something to show your Goddess respect and admiration. A tribute is a truly selfless sacrifice.