Inside Kinky Minds (Blog)

How To Obtain Goddess's Attention And Keep It.
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

How To Obtain Goddess's Attention And Keep It.

Ahhh initial contact, so exciting, so new. It's even more exciting when Goddess actually responds. Congratulations, you've caught Goddess's attention, but can you keep it? Yes, this weighs entirely on you.Goddess has many admirers, and receives many messages daily. your hi's, hello's, and have a great day get old fast when you haven't actually done anything for Goddess.

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Being a Queen vs Claiming that you're a queen. (Basic Blog #15)
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Being a Queen vs Claiming that you're a queen. (Basic Blog #15)

It's been a while since I wrote a blog that caused "controversy," so why not write one today? The online scene has become diluted, I've said it before, and yes, I'll say it again, so many online that claim that they are Queens, Goddesses or better yet Dommes. True Dommes are STRONG ASS independent Women. They live to be pleased and served. A Domme/Queen/Goddess knows what She wants and how to get it, She doesn't change Her Morales of values to get x amount of whatever from a sub, gross.

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Boredom... A Goddess's Musings.
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

Boredom... A Goddess's Musings.

As I am stuck here on lockdown, I often have free time to ponder I many things. My mind often wanders, as it wanders I discover and think about where I am, and where I want to be, about new things that I want to experiment with, and even about past experiences that have brought Me to the place I am today.

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Expanding And Growing Goddess's Empire
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

Expanding And Growing Goddess's Empire

I'm a Goddess and you're a sub, this part is obvious... Look at Me... Now look at you... Now look at Me again. It's clear who's the Superior one in this situation... Very clear. Goddess has been using men like you for years now, and it has been amazing.

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Being The Ultimate Goddess
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

Being The Ultimate Goddess

I know I'm hot. Like really hot. My hotness literally radiates off of Me. It pulses, sending hot, sexy Goddess vibes out into the universe.

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Adjusting Expectations For your Domme. (Basic Blog #7)
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

Adjusting Expectations For your Domme. (Basic Blog #7)

Having realistic expectations for your Domme. Somehow this has become a blog. This blog isn't meant to be "preachy" but to educate as many subs nowadays seem to be confused what a Domme actually is... A person.

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Let's Talk about D/s Relationships. (With No Mention Of Findom.) (Basic Blog #4)
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

Let's Talk about D/s Relationships. (With No Mention Of Findom.) (Basic Blog #4)

The online World has become saturated with all things Findom. Findom is great and all but it's not everything, Findom doesn't make or break a D/s relationship. Findom is only a branch in the world of BDSM. Findom should not be the foundation of a D/s relationship, if Findom is the main foundation that relationship, it's bound to fail.

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I don’t Need your Money. (No, Seriously, I Don’t.)
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

I don’t Need your Money. (No, Seriously, I Don’t.)

I don’t know what’s happened the the scene the last few years, but the Findom scene has taken a nose dive. It’s been diluted by those “role playing” and those just “trying” to make a quick buck, and quite frankly it’s gross, and it ruins it for those of us who actually find actual enjoyment and pleasure out of the kink, not to mention it makes "subs" think that their tributes are "needed," even more gross.

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The Findom "Law Of Attraction." ("Basic" Blog #1)
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The Findom "Law Of Attraction." ("Basic" Blog #1)

(I write a lot of "intense" blog topics this new series of blogs is simpler, fun, and a much lighter read.) I'm sure you've all heard about the "Law of Attraction" by now, if you haven't, where have you been living the past 10 years +?

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Initiating Contact.
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

Initiating Contact.

This is something that SHOULDN'T have to be said, but since many of you seem to be confused I figured I would lay out the basics and ground rules of initiating contact with a Domme.

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Manipulation From the other Side.
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

Manipulation From the other Side.

There are always two sides to every story, and two sides to every relationship.

The key to a successful relationship is developing the right dynamic.

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Yes, I enjoy Findom... But it does NOT define Me
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

Yes, I enjoy Findom... But it does NOT define Me

I enjoy Findom, but it does not define Me. I am so much more than just a "Financial Dominatrix." I enjoy Findom a lot... Don't get Me wrong here, but I also enjoy a variety of other things, kink and vanilla.

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The True Meaning of Tribute and Servitude. Clearing Up The Confusion.
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

The True Meaning of Tribute and Servitude. Clearing Up The Confusion.

I have found that many are confused about the true meaning of servitude and what a tribute actually is... To put it simply... A tribute doesn't get you ANYTHING in return. A tribute is a gift. A tribute is simply something to show your Goddess respect and admiration. A tribute is a truly selfless sacrifice.

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