Inside Kinky Minds (Blog)

How To Obtain Goddess's Attention And Keep It.
Ahhh initial contact, so exciting, so new. It's even more exciting when Goddess actually responds. Congratulations, you've caught Goddess's attention, but can you keep it? Yes, this weighs entirely on you.Goddess has many admirers, and receives many messages daily. your hi's, hello's, and have a great day get old fast when you haven't actually done anything for Goddess.

Negativity And Why I Don't Let It Bother Me. (Basic Blog #18)
Negative people exist in this World, and negative people will always gravitate towards those who are doing better in life than they are, towards people that they are jealous of, and yes they will often try to bring them down.

Getting What I Want Is So Hot. (Basic Blog #17)
The title says it all. Getting what I want is so hot, and Goddess gets what She wants, all day every day. Does this mean I am always turned on?

Quarantine, Lockdown and How To Continue Growing Your Relationship With Goddess. (Basic Blog #11)
I wrote a blog the other day about how even though there is a quarantine/lockdown/travel ban ect, that My relationships with My subs still continue to grow and have actually gotten even stronger, I decided that this may actual make a good topic for an educational blog. So here we go.

Findom Is Not A Weapon
Findom is where a sub WILLINGLY tributes a Dominant that they admire.

Evolving As A Domme
Goddess has been online for just over 8 years now. Over those 8 years My tastes have changed. What I look for in a relationship has changed, What I will and won't tolerate has changed. Over the last 8 years Goddess has evolved.

Let's Talk about D/s Relationships. (With No Mention Of Findom.) (Basic Blog #4)
The online World has become saturated with all things Findom. Findom is great and all but it's not everything, Findom doesn't make or break a D/s relationship. Findom is only a branch in the world of BDSM. Findom should not be the foundation of a D/s relationship, if Findom is the main foundation that relationship, it's bound to fail.

I Am A Lifestyle Domme. What Does That Mean? (Basic Blog #3)
Online you've probably seen a lot of Dommes. Pro-Dommes, Lifestyle Dommes, FinDommes, FinDumbs, ect. Okay the last one isn't a real title but they do exist.

subs: Correcting your Actions/Mindset HERE Can Stop Servitude From Going Wrong.
Another day, another blog. How lucky for you to be graced once more with My amazing words and presence online. Today is going to be a pretty straight forward blog. This is going to address when servitude often starts going wrong, the misconceptions and how to correct behavior before it's too late.

(subs) If your D/s Relationships Constantly Fail There's A Reason Why.
So you want to serve a perfect Domme (Goddess.) you know She is everything you have ever wanted and more. you will do ANYTHING to serve Her. (In the beginning.) But then one day it hits you... Things are going south and fast. Why?

Findom Done Wrong. If this sounds like you. Smarten up or LEAVE.
I've been biting My tongue long enough and of this all needs to be said. I've seen the scene change a lot over the last few years due to the mainstream medias exposure and inaccurate portrayal of our lifestyle and community to the vanilla world, and enough is enough.

What is Dominance? And What Makes a Domme?
Seems like Dommes are everywhere now doesn't it. Everywhere you look someone is claiming to be a Domme.

The True Meaning of Tribute and Servitude. Clearing Up The Confusion.
I have found that many are confused about the true meaning of servitude and what a tribute actually is... To put it simply... A tribute doesn't get you ANYTHING in return. A tribute is a gift. A tribute is simply something to show your Goddess respect and admiration. A tribute is a truly selfless sacrifice.

Conflicting Emotions, Is Being A sub "Right?"
Conflict. Confusion, these are both natural emotions that occur in life.