Inside Kinky Minds (Blog)

New Year, Same Goddess. (Basic Blog #33)
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New Year, Same Goddess. (Basic Blog #33)

It’s a new year and it’s been a while since Goddess has well… Just written about Goddess. And honestly, I’m, My favorite subject and yours too! It’s a win-win for every one. But let’s be honest, I don’t care about you. I care about Me. I care about My happiness. I care about building My empire. I care about getting richer. And I care about making so-called men into the perfect servants for Me. you live to serve Me. I am the main character. Obviously.

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Findom 101 (Part 1: Reimbursements.)
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Findom 101 (Part 1: Reimbursements.)

Since My Findom For Dummies blog is such a big hit, I thought why not start a Findom 101 blog series. Before you newbies get too excited about this blog... This blog is not going to teach you how to be a "domme." This blog is to point out some of the stupidity that Goddess constantly sees on the internet…

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Findom Done Wrong. (Part 2 of ???)
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Findom Done Wrong. (Part 2 of ???)

It's been a few years since My last blog on "Findom Done Wrong", so it's time for Part 2. ( Not to mention all the absurd messages I get from "dommes" in My inbox...) The high turnover in the "Findom" World continues, for many reasons. The most obvious being that, these girls don't have a fucking clue what they are doing, nor do they have a kinky or educated bone in their bodies…

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When Goddess's Tolerance Runs Out. Failing as a sub. (Basic Blog #23.)
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When Goddess's Tolerance Runs Out. Failing as a sub. (Basic Blog #23.)

Goddess can be very tolerant when training subs, but it comes to a point where that tolerance wears out. There are always bumps in the road where it comes to sub training. There is a period of trial and error, learning expectations, as well as learning boundaries and even how not to cross them. Once boundaries are set, they should never be crossed. This goes both ways…

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Being A sub And The Fear of Fitting Into “Normal Society.”
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Being A sub And The Fear of Fitting Into “Normal Society.”

Not everyone in life is able to accept who they are. Some people figure it out early and others…. Well they aren’t so lucky. Some people are raised homes full of taboo. Some people were never exposed to different “tastes.” This is where the conflicted sub comes in. But we aren’t going to completely focus on the conflicted sub in this blog…

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Servitude, Conflict, And Being A Lonely sub.
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Servitude, Conflict, And Being A Lonely sub.

Servitude is a way of life. It is a committed way of life. Not everyone is ready to commit at the same point in their life, however they subconsciously know that their time to fully commit will eventually come... Why?

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Longing For Goddess
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Longing For Goddess

I know how badly you long for Goddess. you crave My attention. you need it. We may have never even exchanged words.

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D/s Relationships: What Type Is Right For you? (Basic Blog #5)
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D/s Relationships: What Type Is Right For you? (Basic Blog #5)

So in My past blogs I have mentioned D/s relationships and how I prefer long term meaningful ones, specifically 24/7 where I take complete control over My subs life, but did you know that there are different types of D/s relationships?

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Becoming My property.
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Becoming My property.

It's every subs dream to be owned, but that dream will never become a reality if you don't work for it.

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I don’t Need your Money. (No, Seriously, I Don’t.)
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I don’t Need your Money. (No, Seriously, I Don’t.)

I don’t know what’s happened the the scene the last few years, but the Findom scene has taken a nose dive. It’s been diluted by those “role playing” and those just “trying” to make a quick buck, and quite frankly it’s gross, and it ruins it for those of us who actually find actual enjoyment and pleasure out of the kink, not to mention it makes "subs" think that their tributes are "needed," even more gross.

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The Findom "Law Of Attraction." ("Basic" Blog #1)
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The Findom "Law Of Attraction." ("Basic" Blog #1)

(I write a lot of "intense" blog topics this new series of blogs is simpler, fun, and a much lighter read.) I'm sure you've all heard about the "Law of Attraction" by now, if you haven't, where have you been living the past 10 years +?

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Initiating Contact.
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Initiating Contact.

This is something that SHOULDN'T have to be said, but since many of you seem to be confused I figured I would lay out the basics and ground rules of initiating contact with a Domme.

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Manipulation From the other Side.
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Manipulation From the other Side.

There are always two sides to every story, and two sides to every relationship.

The key to a successful relationship is developing the right dynamic.

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Yes, I enjoy Findom... But it does NOT define Me
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Yes, I enjoy Findom... But it does NOT define Me

I enjoy Findom, but it does not define Me. I am so much more than just a "Financial Dominatrix." I enjoy Findom a lot... Don't get Me wrong here, but I also enjoy a variety of other things, kink and vanilla.

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