Inside Kinky Minds (Blog)
Hopelessly Mindfucked for Goddess.
It’s on your mind. It’s in your blood. you feel it in every ounce of your body. you exist to serve. you NEED to serve. Serving Goddess makes you feel things that you never felt possible. Sex? Sex? Hah. Sex feels meaningless and unnecessary, it gives you nowhere near the same amount of pleasure. Sex is numbing, mechanical, that is if you’ve ever had it before. LOL
No, Goddess Will Not “Ruin” you. (Basic Blog #27)
Ugh. Nothing more irritating, not to mention more of a turn off than a random ass sub who slides into My inbox with one of the most basic and dumbest of all messages. The message? A variation of “Goddess please ruin me, destroy me, take everything i have so i can no longer eat or afford anything for myself.” It’s gross, and not to mention usually fake.
Findom Done Wrong. (Part 2 of ???)
It's been a few years since My last blog on "Findom Done Wrong", so it's time for Part 2. ( Not to mention all the absurd messages I get from "dommes" in My inbox...) The high turnover in the "Findom" World continues, for many reasons. The most obvious being that, these girls don't have a fucking clue what they are doing, nor do they have a kinky or educated bone in their bodies…
Fun with Contracts (Basic Blog #24)
The elusive contract, the thing that can crank a D/s relationship up another level or 5. Contracts can be a fun tool too to start your D/s journey together, or to shake up or intensify an already hot relationship…
When Goddess's Tolerance Runs Out. Failing as a sub. (Basic Blog #23.)
Goddess can be very tolerant when training subs, but it comes to a point where that tolerance wears out. There are always bumps in the road where it comes to sub training. There is a period of trial and error, learning expectations, as well as learning boundaries and even how not to cross them. Once boundaries are set, they should never be crossed. This goes both ways…
Back to Reality. Goddess's Life As The World Begins to Reopen.
Finally there is progress. The World is slowly starting to reopen. Things are going back to "normal," but I hate the word normal... Let's just say that the World is becoming more familiar again, you know pre-pandemic. Anyways…
Being An Authentic Domme. (Basic Blog #22)
Goddess has been in the lifestyle since 2012, I had sexual awakening and realized this is the lifestyle for Me. I wanted and still want all things kink and lifestyle related. Over these years, I have learned a lot. (I owe a lot to My OG mentor who helped Me discover who I am.) But there is a difference between learning and ripping off another Dommes content/Personality…
Breaking Down The sub-Cycle. (Basic Blog #20)
The sub-cycle, the cycle that explains why all subs do the dumb things that they do. subs are very predictable. So Goddess created this cycle to explain why subs dothe dumb the things that they do. This Basic Blog will break down all things sub cycle. Let’s keep things “basic” and get started…
The sub-Cycle. Conflict subs face while serving. (Basic Blog#19)
Oh conflict, the one thing that tends to come up when unknown territory is approached. New things can be scary, new things can be overwhelming, new things can be (insert word here.). Goddess understands that. What Goddess doesn’t understand is when those situations are always approached and dealt with in the same counterproductive way, hence the beginning of “the sub cycle.” The sub cycle is annoying, and really has no reason to occur…
Findom Is Not A Weapon
Findom is where a sub WILLINGLY tributes a Dominant that they admire.
I Am A Lifestyle Domme. What Does That Mean? (Basic Blog #3)
Online you've probably seen a lot of Dommes. Pro-Dommes, Lifestyle Dommes, FinDommes, FinDumbs, ect. Okay the last one isn't a real title but they do exist.
I don’t Need your Money. (No, Seriously, I Don’t.)
I don’t know what’s happened the the scene the last few years, but the Findom scene has taken a nose dive. It’s been diluted by those “role playing” and those just “trying” to make a quick buck, and quite frankly it’s gross, and it ruins it for those of us who actually find actual enjoyment and pleasure out of the kink, not to mention it makes "subs" think that their tributes are "needed," even more gross.
The "flakes" In Findom And Not Taking Things At Face Value. (Basic Blog #2.)
Here, we go again. Another "basic" to the point blog. Todays blog is about one topic every online Domme has probably faced. The "flakey" sub.
The Findom "Law Of Attraction." ("Basic" Blog #1)
(I write a lot of "intense" blog topics this new series of blogs is simpler, fun, and a much lighter read.) I'm sure you've all heard about the "Law of Attraction" by now, if you haven't, where have you been living the past 10 years +?
Findom Done Wrong. If this sounds like you. Smarten up or LEAVE.
I've been biting My tongue long enough and of this all needs to be said. I've seen the scene change a lot over the last few years due to the mainstream medias exposure and inaccurate portrayal of our lifestyle and community to the vanilla world, and enough is enough.
"paypigs," "losers," and Practicing Safe Findom.
Nothing turns Me off more than sub accounts claiming that they're a "loser" or "paypig," especially when they ask a Domme to make them "oink." 🤮
Tragidommes, Begging, And The white knight "subs" Ruining The Community.
Send GC's so I can eat tonight and not starve...
How "Societal Norms" and Kink Shaming Lead To Doubt.
What is normal? Who decides what is normal? And why do humans feel like they need to check the box of "normal" in order to fit in. I Myself used to struggle with doubt, feeling like something was wrong with Me just because I didn't check everything in the "normal box."
Yes, I enjoy Findom... But it does NOT define Me
I enjoy Findom, but it does not define Me. I am so much more than just a "Financial Dominatrix." I enjoy Findom a lot... Don't get Me wrong here, but I also enjoy a variety of other things, kink and vanilla.
The True Meaning of Tribute and Servitude. Clearing Up The Confusion.
I have found that many are confused about the true meaning of servitude and what a tribute actually is... To put it simply... A tribute doesn't get you ANYTHING in return. A tribute is a gift. A tribute is simply something to show your Goddess respect and admiration. A tribute is a truly selfless sacrifice.