Inside Kinky Minds (Blog)

How "Societal Norms" and Kink Shaming Lead To Doubt.
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How "Societal Norms" and Kink Shaming Lead To Doubt.

What is normal? Who decides what is normal? And why do humans feel like they need to check the box of "normal" in order to fit in. I Myself used to struggle with doubt, feeling like something was wrong with Me just because I didn't check everything in the "normal box."

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Findom For Dummies.
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Findom For Dummies.

The things you see on the internet will never stop surprising you. People get all kinds of ideas in their head and post them without a second thought. It's kind of pathetic really, especially when you're attempting to portray a certain "image." Findom is hot, really hot...

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Initiating Contact.
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Initiating Contact.

This is something that SHOULDN'T have to be said, but since many of you seem to be confused I figured I would lay out the basics and ground rules of initiating contact with a Domme.

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The Dark Side Of D/s Relationships. PT 1.(Domme Drop.)
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The Dark Side Of D/s Relationships. PT 1.(Domme Drop.)

With World mental health day just passing, I wanted to shine a light on one of the less talked about subjects, the affects a D/s relationship has a on a Dommes mental health. I'm not scared or ashamed to admit I have battled with depression up and down My whole life.

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Manipulation From the other Side.
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Manipulation From the other Side.

There are always two sides to every story, and two sides to every relationship.

The key to a successful relationship is developing the right dynamic.

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Yes, I enjoy Findom... But it does NOT define Me
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Yes, I enjoy Findom... But it does NOT define Me

I enjoy Findom, but it does not define Me. I am so much more than just a "Financial Dominatrix." I enjoy Findom a lot... Don't get Me wrong here, but I also enjoy a variety of other things, kink and vanilla.

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The True Meaning of Tribute and Servitude. Clearing Up The Confusion.
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The True Meaning of Tribute and Servitude. Clearing Up The Confusion.

I have found that many are confused about the true meaning of servitude and what a tribute actually is... To put it simply... A tribute doesn't get you ANYTHING in return. A tribute is a gift. A tribute is simply something to show your Goddess respect and admiration. A tribute is a truly selfless sacrifice.

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Servitude and Findom. Clearing the Air.
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Servitude and Findom. Clearing the Air.

As an influx of "Dommes" have popped up on the internet the last year, it seems as if the real meaning of Servitude and Findom have been confused with something else.

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Findom/Femdom/Servitude and General Kinky Musings.
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

Findom/Femdom/Servitude and General Kinky Musings.

If are interested in different views on the wonderful world of Femdom and Kink I encourage you to continue to read. And for those of you who don't know me very well this is the window into my mind.

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