Inside Kinky Minds (Blog)


No, Goddess Will Not “Ruin” you. (Basic Blog #27)
Ugh. Nothing more irritating, not to mention more of a turn off than a random ass sub who slides into My inbox with one of the most basic and dumbest of all messages. The message? A variation of “Goddess please ruin me, destroy me, take everything i have so i can no longer eat or afford anything for myself.” It’s gross, and not to mention usually fake.

Giving In To Goddess (Basic Blog #26)
It’s been a while since I’ve posted a “Basic Blog” and how lucky for you that Goddess felt generous to post another on a Saturday night. A 2 for 1 Blog week just for you. This blog is going to remain very basic, hence the title. Even though this blog is “basic” it will get the point across, and for those of you who have been in My life for a while or even just for the briefest amount of time know that Goddess has no issues getting Her point across. Ever.

How Goddess Makes It Hurts So Good
It’s something so simple, yet it gives you the biggest thrill. Not only is it thrilling but you also experience a surge of endorphins… A surge so strong, so intense, that it makes you feel so complete, happy and whole…

An Unplanned Hiatus
Things have been pretty chaotic in Goddess’s life the last month, but chaotic in the most amazing way possible. I lost track of time and haven’t posted a blog in over a month now. My blog hasn’t been the priority, honestly, online hasn’t been My priority at all. Time has slipped away from Me but…

Findom 101 (Part 1: Reimbursements.)
Since My Findom For Dummies blog is such a big hit, I thought why not start a Findom 101 blog series. Before you newbies get too excited about this blog... This blog is not going to teach you how to be a "domme." This blog is to point out some of the stupidity that Goddess constantly sees on the internet…

you Must Pay $___ To Speak With Goddess. (Basic Blog #25)
Welcome to another one of Goddess's basic blogs. Today I am going to talking about "Initial Tribute." But not just any kind of initial tribute, the type you see all over Twitter in almost every self proclaimed "findommes" bio. Must tribute $10 or whatever before messaging. So, I now ask this question...

"Exposure subs" And Why Goddess Won't Interact With them. (Basic Blog #25)
Welcome to another one of My blogs. This one will be short, because there is only so much to be said about these waste of space excuses for subs. I keep seeing these "subs" pop up on My timeline over and over again. I can't help but shake My head at the dommes who fall into this predictable trap. lol.

Findom Done Wrong. (Part 2 of ???)
It's been a few years since My last blog on "Findom Done Wrong", so it's time for Part 2. ( Not to mention all the absurd messages I get from "dommes" in My inbox...) The high turnover in the "Findom" World continues, for many reasons. The most obvious being that, these girls don't have a fucking clue what they are doing, nor do they have a kinky or educated bone in their bodies…

Fun with Contracts (Basic Blog #24)
The elusive contract, the thing that can crank a D/s relationship up another level or 5. Contracts can be a fun tool too to start your D/s journey together, or to shake up or intensify an already hot relationship…

When Goddess's Tolerance Runs Out. Failing as a sub. (Basic Blog #23.)
Goddess can be very tolerant when training subs, but it comes to a point where that tolerance wears out. There are always bumps in the road where it comes to sub training. There is a period of trial and error, learning expectations, as well as learning boundaries and even how not to cross them. Once boundaries are set, they should never be crossed. This goes both ways…

Back to Reality. Goddess's Life As The World Begins to Reopen.
Finally there is progress. The World is slowly starting to reopen. Things are going back to "normal," but I hate the word normal... Let's just say that the World is becoming more familiar again, you know pre-pandemic. Anyways…

Being An Authentic Domme. (Basic Blog #22)
Goddess has been in the lifestyle since 2012, I had sexual awakening and realized this is the lifestyle for Me. I wanted and still want all things kink and lifestyle related. Over these years, I have learned a lot. (I owe a lot to My OG mentor who helped Me discover who I am.) But there is a difference between learning and ripping off another Dommes content/Personality…

Being The Best Goddess. A General Response To My DM’S. (Basic Blog #21)
Being the best, For Goddess, it comes naturally. I am a Goddess, I am the best Goddess. I get what I want when I want it, because it’s what My perfection demands, it’s what Goddess deserves. I am a Goddess. I have many subs, useful subs, good subs. sub with whom I have built lasting meaningful relationships with…

Being A sub And The Fear of Fitting Into “Normal Society.”
Not everyone in life is able to accept who they are. Some people figure it out early and others…. Well they aren’t so lucky. Some people are raised homes full of taboo. Some people were never exposed to different “tastes.” This is where the conflicted sub comes in. But we aren’t going to completely focus on the conflicted sub in this blog…

Breaking Down The sub-Cycle. (Basic Blog #20)
The sub-cycle, the cycle that explains why all subs do the dumb things that they do. subs are very predictable. So Goddess created this cycle to explain why subs dothe dumb the things that they do. This Basic Blog will break down all things sub cycle. Let’s keep things “basic” and get started…

The sub-Cycle. Conflict subs face while serving. (Basic Blog#19)
Oh conflict, the one thing that tends to come up when unknown territory is approached. New things can be scary, new things can be overwhelming, new things can be (insert word here.). Goddess understands that. What Goddess doesn’t understand is when those situations are always approached and dealt with in the same counterproductive way, hence the beginning of “the sub cycle.” The sub cycle is annoying, and really has no reason to occur…

How To Obtain Goddess's Attention And Keep It.
Ahhh initial contact, so exciting, so new. It's even more exciting when Goddess actually responds. Congratulations, you've caught Goddess's attention, but can you keep it? Yes, this weighs entirely on you.Goddess has many admirers, and receives many messages daily. your hi's, hello's, and have a great day get old fast when you haven't actually done anything for Goddess.

Negativity And Why I Don't Let It Bother Me. (Basic Blog #18)
Negative people exist in this World, and negative people will always gravitate towards those who are doing better in life than they are, towards people that they are jealous of, and yes they will often try to bring them down.

Thinking About Goddess.
Well, here you are again, on the other side of the screen, reading My blog. you are here for a reason, it's because you just couldn't stop thinking about Goddess.