Fantasy Bankruptcy Doesn’t Turn Goddess On.
Do you really think it’s cute to ask Goddess to “pretend bankrupt” you? Well, it’s not… And it’s never going to happen. That type of play is so minor league and so far below Me. Plus, Goddess doesn't get off on stupid fantasy/mean girl/roleplay/transactional interactions...
you know the interactions I’m talking about… The type of interactions where you (the sub) sends, jerks and then disappears as quickly as you just came. Gross. If you are are new here, or if you’re just really dumb and haven’t figured this out yet… Any type of interaction that you have with Goddess is always going to be about what get's Me off first. (And first, is a term I use loosely… That is if I ever show mercy and let you off that edge that I keep you teetering on. All delirious and eager to please Me.) Anyways, Let’s get into the Blog.
Goddess doesn't do fantasy. I don’t get off on fantasy. I’m a Domme, I’m not playing dress-up. Who wants fantasy, when you can do something better in reality? I crave actual control. I get off on it. So no, I’m not going to pretend to “ruin you.“ And no, I’m not going to actually bankrupt you either. But what I will do, is take control of your mind, body, and life… And I’ll do it little by little, and before you know it, one day you will wake up and everything you once owned and knew, will now belong to Me. Hot right? Well, obviously it’s hot dumb dumb, that’s what you call power exchange. Welcome to the real World of D/s relationships and power exchange.
The most important thing to remember, if you’re trying to be in My Life is that Goddess’s Pleasure is the Priority, and that Goddess gets off on power exchange. So, if you're finally ready to stop playing pretend corruption and if you’re ready grow up and get called up to the Big Leagues... It’s time to take the plunge, take the time to get to know Goddess and over time gift Goddess with complete submission… And if you’re lucky, and all goes according to plan Goddess will eventually control everything in your life.
Before this get’s super intense, no I do not want to completely control every sub I interact with. There are different degrees of power exchange. There are milder forms of control and then on the opposite end of the spectrum there is full blown TPE. The common denominator here is that Godess always calls the shots. When it comes to TPE, well it’s super time consuming, I write about TPE in more detail in My older blogs, so if you’re interested in learning about TPE go find and read those blogs. All I will say about TPE here without going into too much detail is that it’s a lot of work for Me. It can be exhausting planning and controlling a submissives entire life, and that’s not something I want to do with just anyone. There has to be a lot of trust, and even chemistry. I would find no joy in controlling/interacting daily with someone I did not like. lol. TPE is life-changing, and transformative, but it does NOT happen overnight… TPE is amazing because it gives subs a new direction and the Purpose, something they were always searching for in life. However, just because a sub can’t commit to TPE it doesn’t mean that non-TPE relationships can’t feel the same level of purpose…
One thing will always ring true, is that a Domme needs a submissive to gift submission to Her, and a sub needs a Domme to give them direction in order for them to thrive, grow and feel Purpose within their lives. Not every submissive can live the Lifestyle 24/7 there are many reasons why that this could be true. Which is just another reason why TPE isn’t reasonable path for everyone. Regardless when a submissive does have the time to allocate to the Lifestyle, it should be under the most authentic of circumstances.
First of all let’s look up the definition of submission, very 101 I know, but some of you really need to go back to basics.
submission: “the action or face of accepting or yielding to Superior Force (Goddesss) or to the will or of another Person (Goddess, duh.)” So… Tell Goddess, when you go to a random stranger Domme and tell them to “bankrupt you” with no actual intention of being bankrupted or handing over your all your financial information, are you actually “yielding to a Superior Force” or are you living out one of your kinky fantasies, led by you? Doesn’t sound very submissive now does it? Well duh, because it’s not. It’s just a sub being horny and wanting a quick high/jerk. Essentially you’re using a Domme to get off. It’s not really about Her Pleasure in this instance is it? (Of course not you don’t even know Her.) Not to mention, there’s also this pesky thing about quick highs… They never last, and before you know it, you’ll be off chasing the next one. Why? Because these fake “bankrupting” scenarios aren’t really scratching your submissive itch, nor are they scratching your Findom itch, because you aren’t actually being financially dominated, nor are you actually submitting to the Domme! you can’t fully submit to a stranger. Shocker. All your bankruptcy fantasies are good for is a quick meaningless jerk… Oh and some cash for the Domme. Is it a win-win? I guess it depends who you ask.
Some people are into transactional, meaningless, temporary interactions as long as they get something out of it. That something for the sub being an orgasm (which usually is followed by a feeling of emptiness and post nut regret), and for the domme it’s your money. But for Goddess, Personally, these interactions don’t get Me off. Goddess craves connection. I want to know My subs inside and out. I want it to be raw, and real…. I crave intensity. Let’s talk more about that shall we? Let’s talk about what really gets Goddess off.
Mmmm… Here comes My favorite part of this Blog… The part where we really get into My Pleasure. Sure, Goddess can easily use and abuse random subs around the clock and drain them of cash, but that’s too easy. I already mentioned, TPE and obviously how totally hot it is… I also mentioned how totally exhausting and unrealistic it is to have that kind of relationship with all of My toys… So what other degrees of control do I enjoy?? Well, if you go back to a few Blogs, there’s the “Fun with Spreadsheets” blog. A spreadsheet or a budget sheet is an effective way for Goddess to completely keep track of and manage My finsubs finances without having to put too much thought into it. Breaking My subs down into simple numbers on a screen is soooo hot and so effective. (I know you subs feel this way too, being dehumanized and just becoming numbers on Goddess’s Screen.❤️🔥) Goddess has a master template for organizing My subs finances, so it makes it super simple and easy to fill out, each time that I add a new toy to My Collection. I get so turned on, seeing all My subs hard earned money go into their accounts, and even more turned on when it comes to the fun part… Taking what’s Mine out. The best part about budgeting for subs and spreadsheets is how simple they are. Goddess can easily pull up the master template and plug in the numbers with ease… Necessities, bills, and then even some savings…. (Because literally bankrupting a sub is not okay, I believe all subs should have a rainy day fund. I know, I’m soooo generous.) But never forget, subs get necessities, Goddess get’s luxuries. Mmmm. It’s so hot being in control.
Just an example of a partial spread sheet. ❤️🔥
So simple budgets/spreadsheets, are totally hot tool in power exchange, and a great way to manage My subs lives and finances at a way less hands on level.
Spreadsheets are only one method, of financial control, and not the only thing that turns Me on. If you are one of this Blogs dedicated readers you now know that fantasy doesn’t turn Me on, and neither do random sessions. Theres a very common link here, fantasy and scripted. All fake. So when a random sub approaches and asks for whatever kind of session without getting to know Me, it’s an automatic no.
My good boys know that nothing turns Me on more than playing with minds, emotions, bank accounts and credit cards. My subs exist to serve Me. My subs exist to be of use. I’ve been inside the deepest part of My subs minds, I know them so deeply, so intimately. I’ve even ingrained Myself into their minds and have even subconsciously reprogrammed them. Most importantly though there is a strong mutual connection and chemistry with them… I love getting off using, playing with, mindfucking and taking from My subs all day and all night… But what about the random message from slaveboy122323? When begs to be “financially ruined” without context and wants to be told that he’s big loser, to get on his stupid knees, to worship Me, send Me all his money and to slap his balls. (you can insert other basic things here too. lol) you get the point. Just no.
As a sub you exist for My Pleasure, My Pleasure becomes your pleasure, your dick should not be a priority. If you think about your dick before Goddess, well I’m not interested in having you in My Life. Can Goddess use your dick as training tool? Of course, anything I allow you to do with your dick is for My benefit, never forget that. Getting side tracked again. hehe. Goddess really get’s off on pure devotion, sacrifice, chemistry, and connection. Real, raw, intense. It’s so hot seeing the desperation in My subs eyes, or hearing it in their voices or words… Hearing how desperately they want to please Me. How easily they hand everything over… Watching the numbers dwindle… Seeing the sacrifice, feeling the sacrifices they are making to serve Me on paper and otherwise…. I love seeing the change in My subs as I reprogram their way of thinking to serve Me as i deserve. Seeing My subs learn the true meaning of sacrifice and servitude, it’s all so sexy…
And the sexiest thing of all? Control, control over your mind, body, cock, wallet, whatever. It’s all so hot. Going pretend broke is so selfish and so 1 dimensional. Yawn. If you just want Me to take random sums of money from you, just say it… But don’t say you want to go into bankruptcy, because that’s a lie… If I can’t see into your accounts and control them, I’m not going to believe a single word you say. So are you ready to stop being lazy? Are you ready to put your selfish fetishes aside to discover something deeper, something more meaningful and life changing? If so… you know where to start. Take the time to introduce yourself to Goddess, to build those connections, and to feel the intensity burn between us… And as that intensity burns, it’s only going to continue to grow…. you’re going to crave to start handing everything over… you’re going to crave to constantly please and sacrifice for the Domme you’re getting to know so deeply, you’re going to crave to be of use. This type of pleasure and cannot be found or replicated anywhere else…. It’s time that you stop chasing highs that you cannot reach and stop trying to scratch an itch that can’t be scratched with the way that you have been living. you’re wasting precious time. Stop being lazy, stop holding back. It’s time to let go and give in. It’s time to discover that building a loop of intense, growing pleasure, desire and fulfillment with your Domme is what you’ve been actually been searching for all along.
Until Next Time,
Goddess Liv