Inside Kinky Minds (Blog)
The Mass Delusion Popping up in The Femdom/Findom Scene. (Part 1. tattoos, branding, tribute and claiming submissives.)
Today is going to be a fun and educational blog. I’m going back to My Educational Blogging Roots. hehe. This Blog series is kind of like My “Findom Done Wrong” series but a whole lot realer. No satire here, just the pure unfiltered opinion of a Lifestyle Domme. I’ve talked about dilution in the scene before, but this Series is on the DELUSION in the scene. Buckle up…. It’s going to be a fun one!
What is a subs Purpose? (Basic Blog #41)
Well hello, it’s been a while since Goddess has written a Blog. Whoops. Time has been flying. I have been on a crazy travel schedule and am finally settled into My Summer home…. Which means you lucky subs and (non-subs) are going to be blessed by another one of Goddess’s Blogs. So today’s Blog may be a Basic one but it is a very important one….
Fantasy Bankruptcy Doesn’t Turn Goddess On.
Do you really think it’s cute to ask a Goddess to “pretend bankrupt” you? Well guess what, with Goddess that’s just not going to happen. That type of play is so minor league and so far below Me. Plus, Goddess doesn't get off on stupid fantasy/mean girl/roleplay/transactional interactions...
The Truth About your submissive urges. (Basic Blog #40)
The truth about your submissive urges is…. That they really aren’t “urges” they are part of your nature. The truth about your submissive urges is… That they are primal and ingrained into your DNA. The truth about your submissive urges is that they are impossible to remove. you can’t remove who you are dumb dumbs. The truth about your submissive urges… Is that they exist to be taken advantage of and to be controlled by a Superior Goddess.
How subs achieve post nut Purpose Vs. post nut clarity. (Aka regret.) (Basic Blog #38)
you’ve all been there, don’t even try to lie to Goddess. Especially you really slutty, poor excuses for subs. some of you are sooooo horny all the time, that you do really stupid things, like sending all your money to a domme you know nothing about, all you know is that her _______ made your dick twitch and in that moment you wanted to jerk and send furiously. But after the “climax” reality sinks in.
Hopelessly Mindfucked for Goddess.
It’s on your mind. It’s in your blood. you feel it in every ounce of your body. you exist to serve. you NEED to serve. Serving Goddess makes you feel things that you never felt possible. Sex? Sex? Hah. Sex feels meaningless and unnecessary, it gives you nowhere near the same amount of pleasure. Sex is numbing, mechanical, that is if you’ve ever had it before. LOL
How to Consistently Be Goddess’s good boy.(Basic Blog #32)
Welcome to another one of Goddess’s basic blogs. Today’s blog is a pretty straight forward one, however for those of you who are too stupid and selfish, it may not be so straight forward and this is exactly why you should read this blog. Goddess is going to keep this blog basic, as I do with all “basic blogs,” so there is no reason that you more dense subs can’t learn something. Now let’s get into the blog.
Relapsing Into servitude Is NOT A Thing.
I mean, the title says it all. And those of you who have experienced true servitude after some time away, know that these words are very true. There is nothing hotter than being a good boy for Goddess. Nothing feels better. Actually… The only thing that makes it even hotter is hearing those words escape from your Goddess’s lips… Those words being good boy.
How Goddess Makes It Hurts So Good
It’s something so simple, yet it gives you the biggest thrill. Not only is it thrilling but you also experience a surge of endorphins… A surge so strong, so intense, that it makes you feel so complete, happy and whole…
When Goddess's Tolerance Runs Out. Failing as a sub. (Basic Blog #23.)
Goddess can be very tolerant when training subs, but it comes to a point where that tolerance wears out. There are always bumps in the road where it comes to sub training. There is a period of trial and error, learning expectations, as well as learning boundaries and even how not to cross them. Once boundaries are set, they should never be crossed. This goes both ways…
Being A sub And The Fear of Fitting Into “Normal Society.”
Not everyone in life is able to accept who they are. Some people figure it out early and others…. Well they aren’t so lucky. Some people are raised homes full of taboo. Some people were never exposed to different “tastes.” This is where the conflicted sub comes in. But we aren’t going to completely focus on the conflicted sub in this blog…
Breaking Down The sub-Cycle. (Basic Blog #20)
The sub-cycle, the cycle that explains why all subs do the dumb things that they do. subs are very predictable. So Goddess created this cycle to explain why subs dothe dumb the things that they do. This Basic Blog will break down all things sub cycle. Let’s keep things “basic” and get started…
The sub-Cycle. Conflict subs face while serving. (Basic Blog#19)
Oh conflict, the one thing that tends to come up when unknown territory is approached. New things can be scary, new things can be overwhelming, new things can be (insert word here.). Goddess understands that. What Goddess doesn’t understand is when those situations are always approached and dealt with in the same counterproductive way, hence the beginning of “the sub cycle.” The sub cycle is annoying, and really has no reason to occur…
Toxic sub Habits That you Need To Change Today.
A sub never wants to believe that they are toxic. Why would a they intentionally engage in behaviour that could compromise their D/s relationship with their perfect Goddess?
Being Purposeful vs. Purposeless. (How To Be A Good sub.) D/s Relationships. (Basic Blog #16)
Being a sub is more than just a title. Being a true sub requires work. Being in a healthy D/s relationship takes even more work. Being a good sub requires taking the time time, having the willingness to learn, and the ability to learn to become vulnerable with your Goddess.
Servitude, Conflict, And Being A Lonely sub.
Servitude is a way of life. It is a committed way of life. Not everyone is ready to commit at the same point in their life, however they subconsciously know that their time to fully commit will eventually come... Why?
D/s Relationships vs. Transactional Relationships (Basic Blog #10)
The title says it all. These are two very different things. This is a basic blog so I will keep it very... Well basic.
Adjusting Expectations For your Domme. (Basic Blog #7)
Having realistic expectations for your Domme. Somehow this has become a blog. This blog isn't meant to be "preachy" but to educate as many subs nowadays seem to be confused what a Domme actually is... A person.