How subs achieve post nut Purpose Vs. post nut clarity. (Aka regret.) (Basic Blog #38)
you’ve all been there, don’t even try to lie to Goddess. Especially you really slutty, poor excuses for subs. some of you are sooooo horny all the time, that you do really stupid things, like sending all your money to a domme you know nothing about, all that you know is that her _______ made your dick twitch and in that moment you wanted to jerk and send furiously. But after the “climax” reality always sinks in.
you don’t really know her, you crave to feel close to her but you’ve never felt further, you don’t know how to really please her, and she will probably block you and never talk to you again… she got what she wanted from you, she used you, disposed of you, and now here you are, covered in your own cum, or maybe you were forced to swallow it, whatever. Regardless, you feel really fucking shitty about what you just did and you are full of regret… One thing is very clear, you’re into jerking, sending, serving whatever, but your’e too stupid to figure out how to do it properly. you know, with actual Purpose. your mind is telling you what you need, you crave to serve a Female Superior, but you’re just too stupid to translate the signals with your weak male brain, you just can’t figure it out, instead you always let your brainless dick win. you really are a lost cause and are so stupid without Goddess. you desperately need My Guidance. you may not understand now, but what your mind and body are craving is actual servitude, not whatever you have been doing whenever you’re feeling horny. If you only act “submissive” whenever you’re feeling primal “urges” guess what? you really aren’t serving a Goddess at all, you’re serving yourself, literally, and this is where it all really goes wrong… This is why you experience a huge drop and regret your actions every time. But don’t you worry dumb-dumb… There is hope for you yet. Goddess is here to reprogram and untangle your crossed wires and make sense of it all… Imagine nutting mentally, over and over again, with zero mess (well, less mess LOL) but with zero regret. Imagine being able to live 24/7 in subby bliss… Yes, it’s possible, but it will take actual work, and not the work you consider while beating your gross dick. So let’s get into the blog.
Post-nut clarity always hits dumb-dumbs hard, you know it, it’s only happened to you countless amounts of times. But what if Goddess told you that you can eliminate it by actually accepting, finding and embracing your True Purpose in life. Keywords “Purpose in life,” nowhere in there was the word horny. Sure there are countless “dommes” who will prey upon your horny urges and dispose of you once they break you, but let’s be honest here, it’s not sustainable, nor is it meaningful. It’s extremely self-destructive. It turns into a vicious cycle of self-serving on both sides. Which really isn’t servitude of all. No wonder why you always end up in cummy pile of regret. An actual D/s relationship is supposed to be mutualistic and leave both parties feeling good. The “dommes” you constantly jerk for and send too, only have one goal which is to bleed you as dry as they possibly can, and of course yours is to cum. This might sound like findom to you, but in Goddess’s eyes, it’s all transactional and one sided on either side. Does Goddess ever, use subs that way? Sure sometimes, when I don’t see a lasting connection forming and when I feel in the mood to do so. But honestly, it’s not what really turns Me on. It’s not what really get’s Me off the hardest. Let’s be honest, everyone get’s horny. But controlling your urges and repurposing them into something useful, is life changing. What turns Goddess on is actual submission. you know, the type of submission that goes beyond when you’re horny. It’s way hotter for a sub to be of use rather than just being used. What really turns Goddess on, are subs who are committed to living a lifestyle of 24/7 sacrifice, and the challenges that come along with it. AKA subs who have accepted their true Purpose in life and who work and live to provide Goddess with servitude, pleasure and are always ready to contribute to building My Empire.
So now, you may ask what is 24/7 servitude like? Well it’s life-changing obviously, but it doesn’t happen overnight. If it did, it would be extremely overwhelming for the sub to experience full blown servitude right away. good boys aren’t built overnight. This is why Goddess slowly reprograms and acclimates My subs into their new lives. Little by little, My subs fall deeper and deeper, until they are completely immersed and committed to living by Goddess’s rules, and in My World 24/7. Bliss. Well it’s not always bliss, and yes, sometimes it is a little overwhelming. But Goddess will challenge you to be better. you need to remember that servitude is sacrifice, and sacrifice is meant to challenge you. Sacrifice is worth it, because it brings immense pleasure to your Domme, and yes even to you when you learn how to process it correctly .
A good sub doesn’t run in the face of a challenge, a good sub communicates. Remember dumb dumbs, D/s relationships take as much work as vanilla relationships. subs who shutdown and run, are the selfish ones who have never truly learned to serve, and those are the subs who will live lives full of cummy regret. At the end of the day, it’s up to the “sub” to change their selfish ways…. Goddess doesn’t need to waste Her time chasing selfish losers down. Gross. But if you’re one of the subs who actually wants to change your ways, you must be thinking… How does Goddess start? Well I can’t give all My secrets away, because I know a good percentage of you are “dommes” trying to duplicate My Perfection, even funnier some of you are subs who were sent by your “domme” to learn from Me. That’s hilarious, because who’s truly training you? Anyways… you can read “Better than your domme” if you want to get into that topic. LOL. Back to this blog.
Where was I…
Right, slow immersion into Goddess’s World.
My World is sooooo amazing, but I don’t just let anybody into it. To join Goddess’s in on World of bliss, you need to earn it. Obviously. So there are tests, many tests. Chastity is an important one, because if you can’t put Goddess’s pleasure before your own orgasm, well that’s not sub like at all. Goddess’s pleasure the priority. Goddess’s pleasure becomes your source of pleasure, and if you can’t forget about your orgasm or touching your stupid dick, for even a trial amount of time, well you’re a huge selfish failure. And nowhere in servitude, (on the sub side) is there room for selfish behavior.
When it comes to chastity, generally Goddess likes to implements a 2 week trial basis. If a sub can slowly forget about their dick and channel their pleasure through Goddess’s pleasure for 2 weeks minimum, it show’s Goddess that this sub has actual potential. Failing at chastity so early on, well that shows how useless of a sub you really are. Why would I invest My time in someone who can’t complete such an easy challenge? If you can’t handle a little sexual frustration, you won’t get very far. It’s clear you’ve been doing “Femdom,” '“Findom,” whatever you want to call it, all wrong. Why you ask? Because, clearly you have prioritized your pleasure. Duh. And when you prioritize your pleasure, all you dumb dumbs can think about is the end goal, cumming. And cumming shouldn’t ever be the end goal. If you’re lucky it may be a bonus, but don’t count on it. A good sub knows, balls full, wallet empty. A chaste sub, is an eager sub, and a sub who is ready to be moulded.
If you’re still wondering why you always jerk, feel bad, and run, well, here’s why, when an interaction is transactional, there is no actual power exchange. When it’s over you just feel empty and used. There’s a huge difference between being “used” and “being of use.” Contrary to popular mainstream belief, stroking and sending isn’t findom, it’s just a transactional experience. Findom is not just about money changing hands, contrary to what almost every domme who’s popped on the scene in the last two years has told you. If you’re too dumb to figure it out still, these people aren’t dommes, they’re roleplaying and just want your easy money. Why? Because they heard of this super easy thing where they can be mean to loser men and make money online. LOL. And if you’re into that? Cool. Be used over and over, and feel like shit and never find real Purpose.
OR
you can actually stop the destructive cycle, and start by making some real sacrifices. you can start by putting your stupid dick on the back burner, and then slowly give up control of your finances, life, mind ect, little by little, until one day, Goddess has control of your entire life. In return Goddess will make you a better person and sub. And you will learn how to make Me feel good. you exist to please Superior’s. AKA Me. AKA Goddess. And maybe on occasion, Goddess will allow release as a “special” reward. But let’s be honest, mind orgasms (mindgasms), the dripping, twitching, the agony and the torture you experience while Goddess teases you and while you work really hard to please and sacrifice for Me, are sooooo much hotter than any orgasm your dumb dick is capable of producing. A Domme like Me craves real control. And the best part for you? Goddess’s control and mind reprogramming can cause My good boy subs to have full blown mindgasms and those mindgasms leave you with the feeling of actual Purpose.
Are you actually still confused on why you constantly feel so shitty every time you nut? Let’s dumb it down even further. Anybody can do JOI. Any idiot can cum. dicks are easy to control. It’s not rocket science, horny men will do anything a “domme” or anybody else tells them to do. When it comes to JOI the focus is never really the dommes pleasure is it? The focus in your mind is about you achieving orgasm. All you care about in your horny brain is humping your hand, or humping whatever’s available, and yes you might pay whoever to do it. But you aren’t sacrificing, all you’re doing is paying for a service. gross. And that’s why you feel bad. your jerking had zero purpose. you weren’t of use. When it’s over you’re disposable,.
And guess what?
selfish hand humping doesn’t turn Goddess on.
Sure, Goddess often uses hand humping as a reprogramming tool, but that’s a completely different method, with a completely different result. It’s about reprogramming and rewiring your subby brain for My benefit, NOT to make your dick explode. Huge difference.
Did you know that the the mind is the most sensual, erotic, and sensitive part of the human body? The mind can be manipulated, remolded, rewired, mesmerized, mind fucked, reprogrammed, whatever you want to call it. Goddess can do it all. And guess what? Goddess’s subs are programmed and wired to serve, send nd please Me, when they’re horny, and even when they’re not horny, because making Goddess feel good and adding to My Empire is always My good boys priority.
The brain is so erotic, it’s a sexy organ, and the bliss and endorphins excreted by the submissive brain in servitude can top any orgasm that you will ever have. In some instances a handsfree orgasm down below may occur. Imagine feeling the chemical satisfaction and comfort of an orgasm in your mind multiple times a day. Safe, fuzzy, euphoric, buzzy, bliss, all created in your subby brain. Serving Goddess, being close to Goddess, and making Goddess feel good, makes your subby mind explode with pleasure…. And if it doesn’t yet, it will after some reprogramming.
Anybody can make a dick cum, dicks are simple, basic, but making a mind cum? That’s real talent. That’s something only a Domme can do. Only Goddess can unlock that part of your brain… A part of your brain that you didn’t even know existed. That’s the real difference between post nut clarity, and post nut Purpose. If your domme hasn’t unlocked and reprogrammed your mind… Well, your dick and your mind aren’t truly aligned, your Purpose is non-existent, and your body is always going to feel instant regret. jerking for yourself and without Purpose is gross. But by following Goddess’s guidance, making sacrifices, and putting Goddess’s Pleasure first… you will feel fulfilled and useful. My good boys work hard and allow Goddess into the subbiest parts of their minds. Goddess loves diving into the deepest, darkest corners of your minds, and unlocking all your subby parts… And guess what? A part of Goddess will always stay there, deeply ingrained in your mind, you will never truly escape Me. Ask any of My subs. ;)
So, anyways, if you want to stop feeling instant post nut regret and instead want feel intense bliss over and over and over again, all while serving at the Feet of a Perfect Goddess… Well you’re going to have to put in actual work, submission, and sacrifice, and not just what your dick is telling you to do. It’s time for your dick to wear a muzzle and shut up. A submissive can not just become the sub they were always meant to be overnight, in a week, in a month whatever. A submissives journey never truly ends. A sub can always be better. To submit, a sub must be willing, with their mind and body at My disposal. you will learn to become selfless… A sub needs to allow Goddess into their lives, into their minds, into every cell and neuron of their submissive brain. As a sub you exist to serve Goddess, not your stupid dicks. Start by letting Goddess in, and from there Goddess will inspect, dissect, change and create the best game plan to make you the best sub you can be.
No two subs are the same, therefore the method will never be the same.
Goddess will use whatever tools necessary to shape you into the best sub possible. And no it won’t be easy, and no it won’t be instant bliss, but one day, it can be, if you work through the challenges, work through your subby fears and conflicts, and put your trust in Goddess. what kind of subby brain do you have? some subs are better blank, some subs are better mindfucked, some subs are better eager, some subs are better cozy, others in pain, whatever the method, Goddess knows the way, it’s simply up to you to trust Me.
If you can’t drop your stupid male ego, and if you can’t stop letting your primal urges and stupid thoughts get in the way, you will never truly find your “post nut Purpose.” All you will continue to do is go down the vicious stroke, send, regret, repeat cycle. you will never find meaning. you will never feel euphoric post nut.
Remember dumb dumbs, a good sub knows their place, a good sub trusts their Goddess to guide them, a good sub knows to communicate with Goddess if/when any conflicting thoughts arise, a good sub knows that their pleasure is derived from their Goddess’s pleasure and that their dick and their orgasm is not the priority. A good sub knows only Goddess can unlock the subbiest parts of their mind. Goddess knows you better than you do. A sub can not truly be a sub without a Goddess to truly selflessly, devote their life to. Now you know that, roleplay, jerking and sending is not submissive behavior, it’s weak male behavior that is easily preyed upon and that’s why you feel like shit post nut. Duh. And if you’re happy being prey and then feeling like shit afterward, whatever that’s your problem not Mine. LOL. But if you’re actually searching for meaning, and actual Purpose at the Feet of a Superior, and if you truly crave to unlock the most euphoric mutualistic sensations, you need to give in, you need to make sacrifices, and you need to truly open yourself up to actual guidance and the challenges that come with it…. Instant bliss always ends in regret. And hiding behind fear and the unknown will also lead you to live a life full of regret. The best things in life, you must work for…. Otherwise you’re just going to live a miserable life unfulfilled, full of post nut regret, bouncing around in “submissive purgatory.”
Remember….
Goddess’s Pleasure is the Priority. When Goddess’s feels good, subby feels good.
Goddess’s Pleasure is the Priority. When Goddess’s feels good, subby feels good.
Goddess’s Pleasure is the Priority. When Goddess’s feels good, subby feels good.
Goddess’s Pleasure is the Priority. When Goddess’s feels good, subby feels good.
Goddess’s Pleasure is the Priority. When Goddess’s feels good, subby feels good.
If you’re ready to change your life….
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Until Next time….
Goddess Liv
