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Let’s talk about the false sense of entitlement that some subs have (Basic Blog #42)
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

Let’s talk about the false sense of entitlement that some subs have (Basic Blog #42)

There is a thing called power exchange in a D/s relationship that many of you have forgot about exactly how that works… So let this be your wake up call, or for those you newly identifying/acknowledging that you’re subs, let this be a lesson to prevent you from going down the wrong path. Remember Goddess will always hold the power, not you. Confused? you shouldn’t be… But let’s get into the blog.

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Why you Will Always Crawl Back To Goddess (The sub cycle pt. 3. serious D/s edition.)
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

Why you Will Always Crawl Back To Goddess (The sub cycle pt. 3. serious D/s edition.)

Here you are, some of you for the first time, while the rest of you find yourself back here once again, craving to hang onto each and every one of My Words. If you’re new here, you’re soon going to be in this same position if you continue to explore and read My Amazing Words and insights on the Lifestyle. My Words will stick with you long after you have left My Page.

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The Mass Delusion Popping up in The Femdom/Findom Scene. (Part 1. tattoos, branding, tribute and claiming submissives.)
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

The Mass Delusion Popping up in The Femdom/Findom Scene. (Part 1. tattoos, branding, tribute and claiming submissives.)

Today is going to be a fun and educational blog. I’m going back to My Educational Blogging Roots. hehe. This Blog series is kind of like My “Findom Done Wrong” series but a whole lot realer. No satire here, just the pure unfiltered opinion of a Lifestyle Domme. I’ve talked about dilution in the scene before, but this Series is on the DELUSION in the scene. Buckle up…. It’s going to be a fun one!

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The Truth About your submissive urges. (Basic Blog #40)
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The Truth About your submissive urges. (Basic Blog #40)

The truth about your submissive urges is…. That they really aren’t “urges” they are part of your nature. The truth about your submissive urges is… That they are primal and ingrained into your DNA. The truth about your submissive urges is that they are impossible to remove. you can’t remove who you are dumb dumbs. The truth about your submissive urges… Is that they exist to be taken advantage of and to be controlled by a Superior Goddess.

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Fun with spreadsheets. (Financial Domination)
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

Fun with spreadsheets. (Financial Domination)

Power exchange is so hot. There are so many ways to do it. And with Goddess? Well I never run out of ideas. It’s a Superior thing, you wouldn’t get it… But that’s exactly why you need Me. Without Me, you’re a lost and hopeless mess. you lack any real purpose or direction in your life… But that can easily be changed…

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Living A Goddess Life. (Basic Blog #39)
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Living A Goddess Life. (Basic Blog #39)

Another day, another Blog. Except it’s been a while since Goddess wrote My last Blog. Goddess has been so busy as of late. I have been traveling almost non-stop, and no, I’m not complaining I love it! Over the past month I have been back and forth between LA, Scottsdale and throughout Florida.

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Constantly Lurking Goddess’s Life. (Basic Blog #36)
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Constantly Lurking Goddess’s Life. (Basic Blog #36)

If you feel like the title of this blog applies to you, there’s a very large chance that it does. Do you feel the guilt of being a lurker? Are you always finding yourself back on Goddess’s pages, reading, watching, silently taking everything in? Are you in denial about your actual submissive nature? Hm?

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Hopelessly Mindfucked for Goddess.
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

Hopelessly Mindfucked for Goddess.

It’s on your mind. It’s in your blood. you feel it in every ounce of your body. you exist to serve. you NEED to serve. Serving Goddess makes you feel things that you never felt possible. Sex? Sex? Hah. Sex feels meaningless and unnecessary, it gives you nowhere near the same amount of pleasure. Sex is numbing, mechanical, that is if you’ve ever had it before. LOL

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How to Consistently Be Goddess’s good boy.(Basic Blog #32)
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How to Consistently Be Goddess’s good boy.(Basic Blog #32)

Welcome to another one of Goddess’s basic blogs. Today’s blog is a pretty straight forward one, however for those of you who are too stupid and selfish, it may not be so straight forward and this is exactly why you should read this blog. Goddess is going to keep this blog basic, as I do with all “basic blogs,” so there is no reason that you more dense subs can’t learn something. Now let’s get into the blog.

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Better Than your domme. (Basic Blog #29)
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

Better Than your domme. (Basic Blog #29)

Goddess is all for empowering Women, except when these "women" make a mockery of My Lifestyle, of our lifestyle, of our BDSM community. I will never say I'm better than your Wife, if you’re married to Her you should treat Her like a Queen, even while serving Goddess. If you hate your Wife so much take this advice from Goddess…. Divorce Her now and then devote your entire life to serving Me. :)

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Relapsing Into servitude Is NOT A Thing.
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

Relapsing Into servitude Is NOT A Thing.

I mean, the title says it all. And those of you who have experienced true servitude after some time away, know that these words are very true. There is nothing hotter than being a good boy for Goddess. Nothing feels better. Actually… The only thing that makes it even hotter is hearing those words escape from your Goddess’s lips… Those words being good boy.

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Giving In To Goddess (Basic Blog #26)
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Giving In To Goddess (Basic Blog #26)

It’s been a while since I’ve posted a “Basic Blog” and how lucky for you that Goddess felt generous to post another on a Saturday night. A 2 for 1 Blog week just for you. This blog is going to remain very basic, hence the title. Even though this blog is “basic” it will get the point across, and for those of you who have been in My life for a while or even just for the briefest amount of time know that Goddess has no issues getting Her point across. Ever.

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How Goddess Makes It Hurts So Good
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How Goddess Makes It Hurts So Good

It’s something so simple, yet it gives you the biggest thrill. Not only is it thrilling but you also experience a surge of endorphins… A surge so strong, so intense, that it makes you feel so complete, happy and whole…

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Findom 101 (Part 1: Reimbursements.)
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Findom 101 (Part 1: Reimbursements.)

Since My Findom For Dummies blog is such a big hit, I thought why not start a Findom 101 blog series. Before you newbies get too excited about this blog... This blog is not going to teach you how to be a "domme." This blog is to point out some of the stupidity that Goddess constantly sees on the internet…

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you Must Pay $___ To Speak With Goddess. (Basic Blog #25)
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you Must Pay $___ To Speak With Goddess. (Basic Blog #25)

Welcome to another one of Goddess's basic blogs. Today I am going to talking about "Initial Tribute." But not just any kind of initial tribute, the type you see all over Twitter in almost every self proclaimed "findommes" bio. Must tribute $10 or whatever before messaging. So, I now ask this question...

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"Exposure subs" And Why Goddess Won't Interact With them. (Basic Blog #25)
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"Exposure subs" And Why Goddess Won't Interact With them. (Basic Blog #25)

Welcome to another one of My blogs. This one will be short, because there is only so much to be said about these waste of space excuses for subs. I keep seeing these "subs" pop up on My timeline over and over again. I can't help but shake My head at the dommes who fall into this predictable trap. lol.

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Findom Done Wrong. (Part 2 of ???)
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Findom Done Wrong. (Part 2 of ???)

It's been a few years since My last blog on "Findom Done Wrong", so it's time for Part 2. ( Not to mention all the absurd messages I get from "dommes" in My inbox...) The high turnover in the "Findom" World continues, for many reasons. The most obvious being that, these girls don't have a fucking clue what they are doing, nor do they have a kinky or educated bone in their bodies…

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When Goddess's Tolerance Runs Out. Failing as a sub. (Basic Blog #23.)
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

When Goddess's Tolerance Runs Out. Failing as a sub. (Basic Blog #23.)

Goddess can be very tolerant when training subs, but it comes to a point where that tolerance wears out. There are always bumps in the road where it comes to sub training. There is a period of trial and error, learning expectations, as well as learning boundaries and even how not to cross them. Once boundaries are set, they should never be crossed. This goes both ways…

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Being A sub And The Fear of Fitting Into “Normal Society.”
Queen Liv (IcyQueenO) Queen Liv (IcyQueenO)

Being A sub And The Fear of Fitting Into “Normal Society.”

Not everyone in life is able to accept who they are. Some people figure it out early and others…. Well they aren’t so lucky. Some people are raised homes full of taboo. Some people were never exposed to different “tastes.” This is where the conflicted sub comes in. But we aren’t going to completely focus on the conflicted sub in this blog…

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